For the love of humanity
Can we evolve already?
50-year-old F boys are just the most unsexy, annoying, pathetic, unimaginative, boring cockalorums burdened with a very angry inch of nubbiness, who aim to foist themselves on women in a sad and sorry attempt to expand their deflated ego, probably because it’s the only thing they have that will actually get hard and stay hard.
Below are photos of an actual conversation I had on a dating app.
I am genuinely curios, do women really respond to this type of communication? Like, has anyone driven two hours for a man they’ve never met or even spoken to who has sent them messages like this?
Was he indeed a catfish? Could he actually be serious?
After spending the summer eagerly awaiting a post on “Are We Dating The Same Guy” like it was a new novel from Sarah Maas, (FYI AWDTG is a social media page filled with male Villains and women trying to save other women from the horrors and heartache), I’ve learned a lot about how to avoid being the next victim to these scoundrels and cads. Thank you, Ladies, for the education in modern dating and I’m sorry its so terrifying just to date. And being 53, I’ve had my fair share of Dorians.
This experience for women isn’t new, women have been dealing with this subjectification since the dawn of time, the basic deplorable behavior of men all the way to the violence they perpetuate on women.
I am just shocked that in this day in age, a man would still consider this tactic workable, which means that either he was totally messing with my mind, or women still make the drive.
As I stated in my response. I am not opposed to a tryst without strings with a fellow now and then. I mean a girl has needs just as much as her male counterpart, yet this felt like a bad idea from the start.
Upon reading the “Hello beautiful” I immediately decided this was a scam. But my desire to let my inner critique take an afternoon off led me down this path. I do have a thing for large hairy men, what can I say… I honestly just wanted, for once, for someone to say “Hello Beautiful” and mean it. Sigh….
I should have just gone with my gut. I am always the optimist, holding out hope that even though I am 53, there might be one person out there who I can spend some time with who won’t demand I shave my vajayjay to pre-pubescent times, drive two hours to them just to be romped and run over without an orgasm in sight, or murdered, who won’t lie, isn’t already married or screwing another man's wife and needs a side chick (This is a real thing btw), who wants to find a man, a real man who can have a real grown up relationship in a modern world.
I don’t want to marry you, have your children and I can support myself. I do require some ingenuity, creativity and effort in order to achieve maximum BJ potential.
But I think women collectively need to stop making the drive. Stop allowing this to go on anymore. Enough is enough, right?!
What will it take to let the fairytale go? It was a lie created in order to make women more amenable to the patriarchy and one thing I am happy for, is that Gen Z and those women who come after are no longer buying the bullshit. Here’s to the next generation of women and I sincerely hope the men finally get the message.
So, Ladies – we late millennials, Gex X’s and so on, can we band together on this? Can we just start saying no to the jerks? I know “Not all men are like this”, but the reality is, many many many men are, and when the “good” men become offended by these types of rants, I suspect they harbor a bit of the wretch hiding within them. Partly because society has condoned this behavior as “boys will be boys” for entirely too long.
I’m certainly not saying we can’t have our fun, they just need to work for it, make it fun, make it interesting, they have to do better than my body pillow named Steve and my vibrator, Javier. I don’t have to drive, put on makeup or shave for those two and I am guaranteed an orgasm.
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Excellent read, Betsy... say no, ladies! It is men like this yo-yo that make me sad for humanity. And really, it has obviously worked in the past for him because, wow...who puts themselves out there like this man? Publicly/privately. Ew.